It's a situation requiring a self-sacrificing attitude. The quarters are tight and you're living with the home owner. They are alright and generally pleasant and cheerful. But they notice when you've been untidy, even if these instances are rare, and usually say something. The instances are rare because you are tidy and respectful yet busy and focused, and occasionally preoccupations with business obfuscate domestic concerns, causing you to appear absent minded. As soon as they say something you adjust your routine and immediately begin to take note of how many times your accuser engages in those very same actions. But you can't say anything in regards to said actions because they will likely become upset and throw you out. This has been my experience anyways.